Join Randy Z and Sankeyz as they entertain their very special guest – Anahit, the lovely wife of Turg – as they sit down and discuss everything from getting married before 30 to transitioning from wife to mother in the blink of an eye. This episode surely packs a lot of hidden gems, deleted scenes and never-before-heard history behind the scenes of the Turgman household. The Talk Thirty To Me team pulls out all the stops in this exclusive episode!
Creating an identity based off of need not from want
What happens when your future takes a completely unpredictable turn – right after you experience a huge life change? Well it happened to Anahit and she shares what it felt like to suddenly transition from one identity to the next with little time in between. If the hardships that come with adjusting to married life, try adding on parent. Life takes unexpected turns that just take you away from the goals set throughout your 20s and 30s. So what happens next? What happens when the choices you want to make are no longer yours to decide?
Incorporating culture into everyday life – for the sake of the children
Perspective on the cultural influence when raising children is starting to take new shape based on the culture. How do you raise your children in a world where culture is truly melting pot than tribal pride. Anahit shares her beliefs in regards to raising children with culture and the importance of creating that cultural identity. She also shares how even though she transitioned into more of a global mindset as she grew into her 30s, culture still plays an important part in her life; it’s important to have children exposed to some kind of “different”. W
When new world clashes with old world and love is on the line
Anahit shares her experience with dating in her 20s and how culture dictated the attitude behind dating and relationships. Sharing an anecdote from her own parents’ lives, she juxtaposes her own real-world experiences in matchmaking throughout her 20s – even when she had been dating her now-husband, Turg. Culture certainly dictated this circumstance in her life, but how did it shape her views and morph her attitude toward her culture throughout her 20s and into her 30s?
Dating in your 30s versus dating in your 20s
We discuss the differences between the 20s mindset and the 30s mindset when it comes to dating. Anahit shares her views on why she probably would’ve done things differently with Turg if they were dating in their 30s. There is something about the 30s that alters the way we think. Anahit mentions how patience plays a big role into accepting someone in your 20s versus as in your 30s. Does the lack time you have to date in your 30s play into this fact?